If you need help now, call 911 if it is safe to do so, or contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

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Prevention, safety, and survivor support

Every memorial story on Real Crime Stories should lead back to action: warning signs, safety planning, legal information, and trusted support.

This directory is built to help readers find immediate support, search for nearby services, and return to survivor-centered information without sensational framing.

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Search the directory for trusted support resources, or use the nearby search to look for help closer to home.

National Domestic Violence Hotline

National

24/7 confidential support, safety planning, and referrals for survivors, loved ones, and advocates.

Phone: 1-800-799-7233

Text: Text START to 88788

Best for: Call, text, or use the website chat if speaking aloud is not safe.

StrongHearts Native Helpline

National

Culturally grounded domestic violence and dating violence support for Native American and Alaska Native communities.

Phone: 1-844-762-8483

Best for: A strong first stop when culturally specific support matters.

WomensLaw

National

Legal information about restraining orders, custody, immigration, and survivor safety across U.S. jurisdictions.

Best for: Useful for understanding court options before contacting a local advocate.

NNEDV Safety Net

National

Technology safety guidance covering phones, apps, location sharing, spyware, and digital privacy risks in abusive relationships. Learn how to identify and protect yourself against digital stalking, covert location sharing like Find My or Life360, and hidden spyware on your devices.

Best for: Best for device privacy, account security, and tracking concerns.

VictimConnect Resource Center

National

Confidential emotional support, planning help, and referrals for crime victims, including domestic violence survivors.

Phone: 1-855-484-2846

Best for: Helpful when someone needs trauma-informed referrals beyond one system.

RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline

National

24/7 support and local referrals for sexual violence survivors, including people facing overlapping domestic violence and exploitation.

Phone: 1-800-656-4673

Best for: Relevant when abuse includes sexual violence or coercion.

Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline

National

Support for concerns involving children, family violence, or mandated reporting questions.

Phone: 1-800-422-4453

Text: Text HELP to 800-422-4453

Best for: Useful when children may be exposed to violence or coercive control.

211 Community Resource Finder

National

A practical local-entry point for shelters, food support, legal aid, housing help, and crisis services in many areas.

Phone: Dial 211

Best for: A strong backup when a person needs nearby services quickly.

National Human Trafficking Hotline

National

The National Human Trafficking Hotline provides free, confidential support to victims and survivors of human trafficking, as well as concerned family members, service providers, and members of the public. Available 24 hours a day, the hotline offers crisis intervention, safety planning, referrals to local resources, and information about available options. Interpreters are available in multiple languages, and individuals can seek help without being required to report to law enforcement.

Phone: 1-888-373-7888

Text: 233733

Tahirih Justice Center

Atlanta, Baltimore, Washington DC, Houston, San Francisco Bay area

The Tahirih Justice Center provides free legal and social services to immigrant women, girls, and other individuals fleeing violence, abuse, and human trafficking. Their attorneys assist eligible survivors with immigration relief, including T Visas, U Visas, asylum, and other forms of legal protection, while connecting clients with additional support services.

NamUs

National

The National Missing and Unidentified Persons System is a free national case tool that helps families of missing persons enter and search case information and connect with criminal justice professionals working to resolve cases.

Best for: A strong starting point for long-term missing person cases and case tracking.

Parents of Murdered Children

National

Parents of Murdered Children offers survivor support, unsolved and cold case resources, advocacy, and chapter-based connection for families and friends of people who have died by violence.

Best for: Helpful when a family fears homicide, is living with an unsolved case, or needs survivor-to-survivor support.

National Center for Missing & Exploited Children

National

NCMEC provides a 24-hour hotline, victim and family support, state clearinghouse guidance, and immediate steps for families when a child is missing.

Phone: 1-800-843-5678

Best for: Use this first when a child is missing or a family needs immediate missing-child guidance.

Reminder

If you are in immediate danger

Call 911 if it is safe to do so. If speaking openly could put you at risk, consider text or web-chat options and use a safer device when possible.

Technology safety matters too. NNEDV Safety Net can help you learn how to identify and protect yourself against digital stalking, covert location sharing like Find My or Life360, and hidden spyware on your devices.

Co-survivor support

Logistical and grief support for surviving families

Remembrance is a journey that often begins with painful logistics. If you have lost a loved one to violence, you do not have to carry the burden alone.

Grief Support and Homicide Loss Communities

Parents of Murdered Children (POMC)

Emotional support, local chapters, and trial accompaniment for anyone grieving a death by violence.

The Compassionate Friends

Dedicated support networks and peer forums for families grieving the loss of a child or sibling.

Survivor Resources

Virtual support groups specialized in homicide loss and resources for navigating police investigations.

Financial Aid and Emergency Planning

National Association of Crime Victim Compensation Boards

Crucial advice: Do not attempt to clean a biohazard scene yourself. Find your state's agency to apply for financial help covering professional crime scene cleanup, counseling, medical bills, and funeral costs.

3 "A" Bereavement Foundation

Practical, hands-on assistance coordinating with funeral homes and securing emergency funding for burials or cremations.

Creating Public Tributes

Planning a memorial bench or plaque

If you wish to dedicate a bench or tree in a public park to honor a victim, contact your local city's Parks & Recreation Department to ask about its Memorial Dedication Program.

Most municipalities require a sponsorship fee and keep strict plaque character limits, often under 120 characters, so wording usually needs pre-approval.